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If you are going to have unprotected sex with your partner, then you probably know how big a step you are taking. This step is big because you are inviting many STD infections, and you can also get pregnant from this unprotected sex. However, the risk of STD is higher when you are having sex with an unknown person.

Yes, if you are thinking of bringing another life into your life, then you should have sex like this. But you should be completely sure whether you are completely ready for that thing or not. Taking this decision can also be very difficult for you. But today we will tell you how you should take this decision. When and how should you decide whether this is the right time for intercourse or not.

Trust and believe: How much do you really trust your partner?

When you are thinking of having sex, you definitely trust your partner. When any woman decides that she wants to bring a new life into the world, she wants to have sex with someone she loves. Whereas, in our society, people have sex only after marriage. But in the West, this is not necessary. Women allow sex only to those whom they trust. So you have to make sure that you trust your partner completely before doing it.

If you do not trust your partner and you feel that your partner is only focused on having sex with you, then you should not allow your partner to cum inside you at all. It is all a game of trust. If you do not trust your partner completely, then you can change your decision. Unless you have complete trust in your partner, never take any big step. Because after this decision, it will be not only your responsibility but also your partner’s responsibility to take care of you.

If you become pregnant, are you collectively ready for parenthood?

You know that after cohabiting, a huge responsibility will come upon you. You have to ask yourself this question, are you ready for parenting? Are you ready to become a mother? This question is big because a huge responsibility is going to come upon you. But you also have to keep in mind that you are not alone in this work, but your partner is also with you. You should ensure that both of you are fully prepared to become parents.

If you think that becoming a parent is very easy, then let us tell you that it is a very responsible job. Avoid taking any big decision until you are fully prepared. You have to decide whether you are fully prepared to raise your child or not.
If you have decided during sex that you want to let your partner ejaculate inside you, the questions become, 1) are you collectively ready for parenthood; 2) is this the person you would want to raise a child with?

3. Where do you both stand on the birth control conversation?If this is not the person you see a future with or you have no desire to become a mother yourself, it is time to get clear on where you and your body stand on birth control. Contrary to popular belief, abortion is birth control, and whether you believe this or not, you should both have an honest conversation about your position on this method. Women can have abortions until age 45, so whatever you do, please don’t feel ashamed. But you should know if this is a person who will support you physically, mentally, and financially through this process or if it will be expected that you do it alone.